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  • Lanika and Profile picture of GlissGliss are now friends 2 years, 4 months ago

  • Lanika posted an update 2 years, 4 months ago

    A relationship without trust is not a relationship at all. Trust is important to a relationship as well as communication. Without both, a relationship falls by the wayside. That’s why so many marriages don’t last because couples don’t take either trust or communication to heart. Once trust is lost its so hard to get the feeling of trust to come back.

  • Lanika posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago

    Hey Gliss, it just doesn’t work. It makes innocent behaviors suspicious and no big stuff dramatic. It’s stressful for both people involved. It makes people worry and stress, and stress and worry creates illnesses, unhealthiness and unhappiness.

  • Lanika and Profile picture of ScottScott are now friends 2 years, 4 months ago

  • Lanika posted an update 2 years, 4 months ago

    You must accept that you might fail; then, if you do your best and still don’t win, at least you can be satisfied that you’ve tried. If you don’t accept failure as a possibility, you don’t set high goals, you don’t branch out, you don’t try and you don’t take the risk.

  • You are absolutely right! The process of setting goals helps you choose where you want to go in life. By knowing precisely what you want to achieve, you know where you have to concentrate your efforts.

    Many people feel as if they have adrift in the world. They work hard, but they don’t seem to get anywhere worthwhile. The reason why they are…[Read more]

  • I can’t even think of something I would remotely like doing as much as fashion design. It took me awhile to come to terms with it. I always liked the red carpet aspect of fashion but when I started to research it I learned it was also about all the things I loved: art, history, and individuality. It blew my mind seeing designers, fashion b…[Read more]

  • There were times when I felt completely lost. Being a teenager was never easy for me. I always got picked on or I was never too popular to be around the other kids. Besides not being popular, I was very unique. When I found out that I have the knowledge and skills for fashion, it changed the rest of my high school years. I still didn’t care about…[Read more]

  • To be honest, I always thought that the girls on the cheer-leading team were all bullies. I never thought that I would be a cheerleader when I was in high school. Everyone told me I had all the skills that was needed. The only thing that was holding me back was the other girls on the team. One day I decided that I am not going to allow anyone to…[Read more]

  • Lanika posted an update in the group Group logo of Fashion and StyleFashion and Style 2 years, 5 months ago

    I’m unique and I’ve come to believe that being creative and different are not such good things after all. Luckily for me it is never too late to turn into the person you used to be. It is never too late to break down the barriers and run free and wild. One way to do that is through my clothes. That’s why I enjoy designing my outfits and displaying them.

    • Very creative people are often different, it is what sets you apart from the rest and makes you unique. It’s so beautiful. It does take a while to embrace this yourself when you are different, feels awkward. I wonder if we can post photos here. It would be nice to see what you are talking about.

    • Oh, definitely I believe clothes reflect our personality, and the best way to convey who we are is to be creative with our style to reflect it. It can be hard to be creative with society and their norms and being boxed into a certain style. But it takes a lot of confidence to be bold and embrace our uniqueness. I, mean we only live once, so live…[Read more]

  • Lanika posted an update in the group Group logo of RelationshipsRelationships 2 years, 5 months ago

    If you ever wonder why your relationship is falling apart or you are not connecting with your partner, then sit down and talk to him! At times, we might say stuffs which are not true and it’s because of how we are feeling. It’s best to have a conversation with your partner, telling him how you’re feeling. This always brings a relationship closer…[Read more]

    • Hi Lanika,

      I agree. I’ve recently left a comment to a post somewhere around here (lol) where I mentioned the importance of communication and vulnerability in relationships. These things are essential to trust; without trust there is no relationship.

    • Hey Gliss, it just doesn’t work. It makes innocent behaviors suspicious and no big stuff dramatic. It’s stressful for both people involved. It makes people worry and stress, and stress and worry creates illnesses, unhealthiness and unhappiness.

    • A lot of people don’t realize that communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. If neither partner talks to one another about issues they may have, then the relationship is not going to last very long. People often think it’s better to hold their issues inside of themselves rather than confront a partner about an issue they…[Read more]

    • This was a great post and I definitely agree with the points you made! Please share similar posts like this. Great info!

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